Nothing happens to us that we do not allow on some level. This could be very tough to take especially if we feel like we’ve been victimized by someone or something.
When good things happen to us, we usually allow it because it feels good and think that it serves us in some way. But sometimes what we think is good, can actually be very bad for us. Nearly everyone who wins a large amount of money in a lottery drawing ultimately regrets it. They feel that they were better off without it. Despite that track record, people still pay to enter the lottery knowing that if they win, it will most likey destroy their lives.
Also, when bad things happen to us, we must allow it. If it happened, we allowed it. It works both ways both good and bad. But then again nothing bad ever happens. If anything this card is a reminder to be less dualistic in dealing with life’s challenges.